Monday, June 12, 2006

5 love languages...

Posted by Ling at 4:32 PM
had a great day on saturday ^-^ managed to watch project runway season two (my favorite favorite reality show by far...), an exciting episode because it determined who would be able to get into "olympus fashion week". they're starting to air the next season in july so this is sort of realllly out dated by it's exciting to watch anyway ^-^ daniel's by far my favorite~~
afterwards, england's game.. not too exciting but the first game where one of the teams i cheer for was playing.. so fun ^-^

on sunday went out with lg718, cat and ray.. we sang karaoke till we went crazy xD afterwards i went back to lg718's place to watch the end part of the game (netherlands i think) and eat 'siu yeh' ^-^

i was talking to selina and she sent me the five love language test! i sent out an email about it earlier, after my sis told me about the book she read and selina found a website where you could do a test to see which love languages you 'spoke'. my results:

The five love languages:

My primary love language is probably
Physical Touch
with a secondary love language being
Quality Time.

Complete set of results

Physical Touch:
11
Quality Time:
9
Acts of Service:
5
Words of Affirmation:
3
Receiving Gifts:
2

Information

Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.

Take the quiz

the five languages are listed above. In this theory, if you take the time to realize what language your partner/people in your life etc speak and use that language to speak to them, you can fulfill them and vice versa if they speak your language. lf you are fulfilled enough, then it doesn't matter what language your partner speaks; you will be fulfilled regardless. however, when people in a relationship do not speak in their partner's language, what happens is that a lot of the time their love 'tank' is empty and we are unhappy and unfulfilled as a result ..
my results are pretty much what i thought i was when i sent out the email to my friends ^-^ selina is an acts of service girl and quality time, exactly like my sister~ what are you? ^-^ leave me a msg and tell me! think through carefully; what language does your partner/family speak in? have you fulfilled them lately? ^-^ just a thought~!

current mood: tired (pilates class?)

ps: i love this line from one of jay chou's songs.. always think of lg718 when i hear it:
[ 想看你的看的世界,想在你夢的畫面, 祇要靠在一起就能感覺甜蜜..]

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